In His Own Words
About him
Considering, self praise, is no praise at all!..this may be awkward :/
Treat people, as I would like to be treated.
A romantic, who is articulate and well educated. Sensual, with passions... for art, writing, poetry, cooking and some.
Honest, as no one knows where they stand with dishonesty.
Considerate and possesses empathy.
A little extra :)
Relaxed with life, though talk straight. A romantic, who knows how to treat a woman. I read a lot, still try to keep in shape. Enjoy the life, cooking, reading, art, poetry, philosophy, alternative medicine. . . and some. I have spent much of my life, so far, fixing things. Usually, other people and their things. Maybe many people cannot achieve this for themselves. Maybe they do not try. Maybe they have just reached the end of their ever crippling tether... Who knows?
I don't like liars, or cheats. I don't do these and I don't want to be around people who do. With the right partner, there is a simplicity to relations, to life, to all. The secret, is finding the right partner.
Did I mention. . . I read a lot? : ) I love to read, to learn. After all, what is the brain for? As I have my interests, I respect my woman's interests. Hopefully, they are similar, but if not, we accommodate. Yes?
I do NOT entertain past relationships. They are gone. They didn't work and I really have no need, or interest, to communicate and be 'friends', with the other half of a broken relationship. I have been asked... 'Let's be friends'. My answer is simple 'The time for wanting to be friends, was when the relationship existed, not now it has finished'.
The very last thing I wish to do is to impose my thoughts and feelings into another's thoughts and feelings. However, if by some chance, I meet someone with similar views, then those thoughts and feelings may well be shared... resulting in no conflict of interest.
to be continued at the end of my ideal match (I talk too much :/)
About his ideal match
Someone who recognises all the above and appreciates.
A self-educator. Sensual and romantic. A bit of a maverick, yet can compose oneself at essential moments :))
A good sense of humour.
A little extra :))
Well adjusted romantic. Reasonably intelligent and ready to commit to enjoying shared lives. Enjoys the outdoors. Someone who has heard of Maslow, or Emmanuel Kant, or Rousseau. But if not, are happy to learn. Someone, who is honest, has the ability to love and be loved. Sensual, yet faithful. Intriguing, yet an open book, to the one who loves her.
...continued
Of course these are the very points I should have made 32 years ago :/ Needless to say, I didn't and by the look of these 'lonely heart' websites, not many people did clarify things from the start.
So all battered and bruised, with 'the life', here we are.
I shall leave with this very disguised positive point.
Think back 10-20 years. Think hard!! See how quickly it has gone by?
Our perspective of the future is almost timeless. The truth is, the future 10-20 years will pass as quickly as the last 10-20 years. Best to make the most of it. Make it exactly what you want and deserve and take nothing less x
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Birmingham (Tamworth), West Midlands, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 300 miles of postcode district B79 (Tamworth) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
36 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Regularly; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Most days | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Business; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Body building; Chess; Fishing; Hunting; Martial arts; Pool; Shooting; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |