In Her Own Words
About her
I’m very comfortable in my own skin but I’m hoping to find that special someone who can get under my skin with me. I love to laugh. I’m a great cook. I enjoy nights out or nights in, it’s having that special someone with you that makes all the difference. I’d like to be part of a loving relationship again. I’m honest and trustworthy. I don’t want one night stands or sexy chats. If that’s all you want then move on. Obvs with age comes health issues. I’ve had both hips replaced and walk with sticks due to complications. This doesn’t seem to stop my determination to enjoy life to the fullest though. I’m fiercely independent and love to drive. My favourite thing is my foreign holidays, at least twice a year. A must. I’m a family orientated mum and Nan.
About her ideal match
I’m looking for someone to make laugh or make me dinner. Or both. In fact both would be ideal. A man who isn’t obsessed with his looks or his body and can see me for the person inside as well as the shell. I’ve got some mobility issues and I don’t want a conceited man who can’t see past that.
All in all, I think I want what we all want really, to Love and be Loved.
I’m looking to take things slowly. I’ve never been one for talking on the phone. I get stuck for things to say and then feel awkward with silences, but I can text an essay. I suppose I’d better get used to it though.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Harlow, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cambridgeshire; East Sussex; Essex; Hertfordshire; Suffolk; Surrey (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I struggle with mobility |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music; Reading; Sewing; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Boxing; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Rugby |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |