In His Own Words
About him
I am a Geologist, Artist and a Father. Have three wonderful children who love their Dad and want him to be happy again. I'm more smiley than my pics suggest, kind, compassionate, creative and passionate. I love different cultures and people, but dislike intolerance and bigotry. I often work in Morocco and love to travel. Just as happy in front of the TV with red wine and my soul mate, as I am by a villa pool. I just need to find her. Beauty within, kindness more attractive than pin up looks. I am happy with people from all and any background, any culture. The only thing I am unhappy with, is being alone. I never thought I would be and several years later, I still hate it. I am better with someone, I always was. Everything shines brighter, smells better and laughing is part of the conversation. I have a lot to share, to give, there is music, art, science - so much awe, so many places and things to see. I have seen too much and stood in awe at the sight of them to know its wasted doing it alone. Would be good to have somebody standing beside me, and see the look on her face when she see's it too. Life is happy - or should be, it can have its calm and intense moments, it can be peaceful without tedium it can be exciting without drama. I am happy to adapt to someone and their life and history, not because its the noble thing to do, but because it is the way to friendship, companionship, passion and happiness.
About his ideal match
My perfect match would be someone who isn't looking for the perfect match. I want somebody with imperfections as well as the attractive qualities. I don't smoke but if you do thats OK, I used to thirty years ago, I hope you like music, art, comedy and food. Tolerance and calm is good but so is a feisty and independent personality, a woman who can tell me to shut up when I talk too much would be wonderful. I hope you have interests you could tell me about, books or films - children you are proud of, places you have been or would like to go to. Your history is important but so is your privacy, I would need to respect that. There are things to do together, places to see, the simple things and the occasional epic things, together. The simple joys of togetherness and warm memories to be made to add to those we share with others. Though life is short, there is too much time, too much living to do to, not to try. Whether you think you may have quirks or imperfections, or that you lack something, the truth is you may have so much more than you know, besides, its the little flaws that make the best of people, makes you human, often adorable. I remember that so I know its true. So my perfect match is somebody who is a bit imperfect. I know I am, so we would probably be perfect for each other.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Manchester (Rossendale), Greater Manchester, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Bald | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 11" (149cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Painting; Politics; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sports: |
Camping; Dance; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Motorsport; Orienteering; Running; Swimming; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |