In Her Own Words
About her
Some say I have a kind, quite, confident demeanour which can come across as bit "snooty" and too focussed (nb: UK spelling - thus pedantic too), however I am just a private person, there is a difference. I have yet to find the right partner (the following could prove why)! I could be loyal, supportive, and loving and willing to discuss all manner of subjects, anywhere, all hours of the day - I have a need for deep conversation.
I am reasonably practical but find myself worrying about the smallest of details, I care deeply about humanity and what makes us all tick and fear for what we are doing to ourselves and the planet - the pandemic threw up such contradictory environmental, social and economic questions ..… but I do like to relax too:
I like documentaries, t.v. dramas, acting – being a bit of an amateur dramatist. I sing but not well. I can dance modern jive, and practise yoga to keep fit (not at the same time). I've played bridge at a social level. I'm not a regular hiker but can manage a fair trek, a member of the National Trust (other societies are available)and I like kayaking - when I can. I enjoy live theatre and the cinema and love watching British films …… oh, and musicals - sorry
Main photo 2020; second, atop Snowdon and as The Tin Man all taken during 2018 and the last photo June 2019
I dislike ... rudeness, asking for help, and anchovies ... and waste!
Outlook on life: Optimistic.
About her ideal match
I am drawn to a man who takes care of himself, appreciates the benefit of good health and hygiene. Someone to share good conversation, some joint pastimes, someone who is driven but who can also dream. Aren’t we all looking for that someone to love who loves us back regardless of all our faults and foibles?
Remember Goldilocks ...
Not too old nor too young, not too sporty but fit enough, attractive but not narcissistic, someone independent but needs a helping hand (or heart), who enjoys similar things but can introduce new ideas, they'll need to be honest, trustworthy, loyal and funny ... oh ... yes ... I love a good laugh ... doesn't everyone?
(but not slapstick)
... just right
Don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or their fancy car; love them because they sing a song only you can hear - HK
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district HP20 (Aylesbury) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Taurus; Cancer; Virgo; Scorpio; Capricorn; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; Further education; University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
French | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
Time |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Independent; Mild; Moody; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance |
Hair style: |
Medium; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Healthy living; Painting; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Dance; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Green |
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |