In Her Own Words
About her
I love to travel, at home and abroad. I especially love Italy.....it has everything; art, culture, great architecture, wonderful food and wine as well as shopping!
I enjoy the theatre and like to wander around galleries, museums and exhibitions. London is great for these activities, there's always something to see or do, whether its sunny or raining.
I like spending time with family and friends and enjoy cooking a lot more when I have guests.
I like to read all sorts of things from serious history to a trashy novel!
I love to laugh and enjoy good conversation and like to go out to a nice bistro or gastro pub for a meal and a glass or two of wine.
I’m working at my fitness, I want to be as fit and healthy as I can be for as long as possible, so I’m at the local pool either swimming or doing an aqua class Mon-Fri.
I “retired” in 2017, so now have a lot more time for myself, having spent many years in IT in the city; but I do like to keep my brain alert, so I now work part time at a partnership project between the charity Mind and the NHS, which is completely different to anything I’ve done before but is really rewarding.
I've been single for a while and I'm looking for good company and a bit of romance, fun and adventure in the "late afternoon" of my life. If you think we would get on, send me a message. In the meantime good luck in your search.
About her ideal match
Someone who has time to date. Someone who enjoys conversation and going out and having fun. If you’re a couch potato whose only interests are sports then we won’t get on!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Stanford-le-Hope (South Ockendon), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Guernsey; Ireland; Isle of Man; Jersey; United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district RM15 (South Ockendon) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
Some sensual satin lingerie |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Swimming; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |