In Her Own Words
About her
People should get to know me because I'm trustworthy and interesting. I have some education and life experience, and I'm seeking casual conversation with other intelligent humans...hopefully funny ones. =P
From the questions on the right:
*Friends would describe me: quiet and kind, they also say I'm strong, but I don't usually see myself that way.
* My likes and dislikes: I like honesty and genuine human traits, quirks and flaws included, REAL PEOPLE...not fake personas designed for public consumption. I dislike people who take themselves too seriously and think they are better than me...I have news for them; they aren't. *LoL*
* I have lots of hobbies and interests: cooking, gardening, crafts...ask me!!
* For fun and relaxation: I like to do things with my daughters, play with my dog, I love the outdoors, the beach, and like to hike and camp, I am also learning to be an expert in self-care! I'm happy to give you some tips for stress reduction and finding peace. I watch Youtube alot, and I want to learn how to be a nomad so I can travel around in my van exploring new places and having new adventures. I'm a native to the southwestern US, and I love it! 💜
* My outlook on life: My cup is usually half full. Life is what you make it...I choose to be happy. =)
Things you should know are:
1. My family is my top priority.
2. I watch way too much tv. *LoL*
3. I came to silversurfer looking for a normal chatroom, like a coffee shop or pub, but they dont seem to exist...so here I am.
About her ideal match
From the questions on the right:
Qualities I'm looking for in my ideal match: I'm not looking for a match at all, but honesty is the most important trait to me. 😎
What would make your relationship work: I'm not looking for a relationship, just casual friendship and online communications with other humans. I need respect and dignity from others, and I give the same in return.
What activities would you like to share: travel, food, learning new stuff... mainly I just want to chat online right now. Then see what happens...
Deal breakers: abusive, dishonesty, drug use, alcohol problems, lack of ethics.
for the part below: WHAT HER FRIENDS SAY
You've got to be kidding! I'm not asking friends to give me a recommendation on a dating website. What a joke! *LoL* 🤨
What Her Friends Say
phoenixOC hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About her
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Orange (Orange County), California, United States | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in North America | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Native American; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Pink |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Camping; Hiking; Horse Riding; Mountain biking; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I live with them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |