In His Own Words
About him
I like words. I try to use them with precision and frequently mess this up 🤪. Some say I can paint beautiful mental pictures with words. In messaging though, others have helpfully told me that I am too verbose. So I’m practising economy here (badly 😉)
The irony is that in real life, I’m generally quiet, thoughtful and much more adept at listening than speaking. The self-awareness of someone with more introverted-tendencies who has made peace with this aspect of himself, in an otherwise largely extrovert-friendly world.
Still reading? OK, here’s a few sound-bites of relevant personal info to help you filter me in/out. Psychologist (INFJ / sigma); left-leaning veg-growing Green voter; cats not dogs; avid meditator and film watcher; enthusiastically rubbish at tennis (and learning padel); camembert, curries and The Cure; city-dwelling countryside-lover. Alliteration optional.
Oh, and the ‘psychologist’ bit means I’m endlessly curious about people’s behaviour. It doesn’t mean I’m a walking credit card 🤑. Whilst your relative wealth is unimportant to me, your financial independence is. Please, no more ‘sugar daddy fantasists’ - it just creates an unhealthy power dynamic from the start.
I have no ‘whirlwind romance’ expectations - initially looking for meaningful connection and friendship, with the potential to explore growing together from a solid footing.
I wish you happy man shopping x
About his ideal match
Audrey Hepburn. Bit too late there though. Otherwise, someone who reads my description above and feels tuned into that, with a shared sense of the underpinning values.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Brighton (Hove), East Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
6' 3" (191cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 300 miles of postcode district BN3 (Hove) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Faithful; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
Movie frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Mountain biking; Snorkeling; Tennis; Walking; Windsurfing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Green |
Honesty: |
Extremely |