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Optimistic13

75 – Leeds (North Leeds), Yorkshire - West, England

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Optimistic13

75 – Leeds (North Leeds), Yorkshire - West, England

Interesting Individual - seeking an Interesting Individual

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Online: Sunday

Updated: 27 February 2026

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In Her Own Words

About her

I've a quick, sharp wit and am very amusing if you're on the same wave-length! I'm very domesticated. Love: my home/family/friends; cooking/baking; reading; (some) music; films/theatre/ballet; holidays; the sea. I'd describe myself as an optimistic pessimist :@}. Prefer: savoury to sweet; sunshine to rain; looking at snow to being in it; looking at gardens not gardening; driving (fast) to being driven.

About her ideal match

I'd like a man who's not afraid of his feminine side; has empathy with others. One who's strong in his belief in himself, and knows when to be firm and when to give in gracefully. In many ways I'd like a mirror image of myself, with enough differences to make things interesting. He'd have to be a non-smoker, and a light drinker (alcohol, of course - tea/coffee/water etc as mush as he likes). Not too much swearing please.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Leeds (North Leeds), Yorkshire - West, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
75
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
5' 2" (157cm)
Body type:
Full figured
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Grey
Eye colour:
Hazel
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Kosher
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Secondary
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Jewish

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Leeds; Wetherby (England, United Kingdom)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
65 - 75
Star sign:
Taurus; Leo; Virgo; Capricorn
Height:
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 2" (189cm)
Body type:
Average; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average; Average
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite clothing:
Anything, as long as it's black
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; Curly; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Disabilities:
Other
Body art:
A tattoo or two
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
Crime; Fiction; Mystery
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Drama; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Knitting; Music; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; Writing books
Sport involvement:
Bored to death
Sports:
Dance; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Sushi; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
On a beach
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating:
Hopeful; Curious
Honesty:
Very