In Her Own Words
About her
I've a quick, sharp wit and am very amusing if you're on the same wave-length! I'm very domesticated. Love: my home/family/friends; cooking/baking; reading; (some) music; films/theatre/ballet; holidays; the sea. I'd describe myself as an optimistic pessimist :@}. Prefer: savoury to sweet; sunshine to rain; looking at snow to being in it; looking at gardens not gardening; driving (fast) to being driven.
About her ideal match
I'd like a man who's not afraid of his feminine side; has empathy with others. One who's strong in his belief in himself, and knows when to be firm and when to give in gracefully. In many ways I'd like a mirror image of myself, with enough differences to make things interesting. He'd have to be a non-smoker, and a light drinker (alcohol, of course - tea/coffee/water etc as mush as he likes). Not too much swearing please.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leeds (North Leeds), Yorkshire - West, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Kosher | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Jewish |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Leeds; Wetherby (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
65 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Taurus; Leo; Virgo; Capricorn | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Knitting; Music; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Dance; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |





