In Her Own Words
About her
Creative, cosmopolitan and quietly grounded.
I’ve built a life I love - a beautiful home, a strong sense of self, and a deep appreciation for the arts. I’m drawn to both the classical and the unexpected. Music is a constant companion and my taste is eclectic - from classical and jazz to house and rock, with a soft spot for opera and ballet, but just as happy at a live gig.
I enjoy clever, engaging conversation, a natural sense of wit, and people who are comfortable in their own skin. I don’t rush things, but I do value connection, the kind that feels easy, interesting and real.
All photos are very recent and taken in June 2026
About her ideal match
I’m drawn to someone bright, attentive, open-minded, open-hearted, emotionally aware and quietly confident. Self-assured without needing to prove it.
Curious about the world and about others, with the ability to listen as well as talk and a natural sense of kindness, integrity, and humour.
Attraction matters, but so do character, presence and how things feel together - something that develops with ease, authenticity and a genuine sense of connection.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Westminster, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Italian; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district W2 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
59 - 71 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; German; Italian; Japanese; Norwegian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Hair style: |
Long; Curly; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Chess; Dance; Skiing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Honesty: |
Very |