In His Own Words
About him
An introvert who does people well — drawn to depth, curiosity, and good chemistry. Newly single, taking things lightly but meaningfully, and very open to seeing where conversation leads.
About his ideal match
Calm and grounded with a quietly playful side. I’ve lived a bit, enjoyed most of it, and I’m always curious about what (and who) comes next.
Family matters to me, as does presence — I plan ahead, but when I’m there, I’m really there.
Bonus points if you enjoy wit, warmth, and the slow build of connection.
60. Grounded, warm, and finally enjoying a slower rhythm.
After 30 years serving Queen and Country, I now work in the NHS as a Patient Services Coordinator — a role that suits me far better than I ever expected. I’ve spent a lot of my life in people-facing work, so empathy, listening, and emotional awareness come naturally.
I’m a dad to two grown sons (one electrician, one musician) and share my days with a dog who insists on long walks and fresh air. Outside work, I’m happiest keeping life simple: lunch with friends, countryside breaks, live local music, rugby union, cooking something decent, and the occasional glass of red.
I’m not here for drama or reinvention — just to meet someone kind, open, and comfortable with who they are. Someone who enjoys walks, music, conversation, quiet evenings, and the pleasure of easy company.
Life’s complicated; people are nuanced. I value honesty, humour, and emotional intelligence — and I believe connection grows best when there’s calm, respect, and a bit of laughter.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea (Shoeburyness), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
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50 - 68 | ||
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