In Her Own Words
About her
I am a warm and sociable person who enjoys the little things in life as well as the wider world. I enjoy walking, live music, dancing, singing, gardening, seeing friends, outings and a bit of travel.
I am quite a capable and independent woman and have a wide circle of friends and various interests, but really miss being in a significant relationship with a mature man, sharing life's ups and downs, mutual support and genuine connection. I appreciate that no-one can know at the beginning if things work out, but I am looking for a serious committed long-term relationship.
I grew up in Germany before spending my teenage years in London, then came up to Nottingham Uni and stayed.
Following the death of my husband eight years ago I had to retire early as an NHS Manager due to health issues and have since become involved in my local community, wildlife gardening, a peace movement, environmental causes and two choirs.
About her ideal match
I would like to meet a man who is confident and happy in his own skin, has good self-awareness, relationship skills and emotional intelligence. Someone who shares some of my values and interests such as tolerance, respect, leading a meaningful live, living relatively sustainably, a foodie, loving nature, socializing, has a good sense of humour, enjoys music, dancing and a bit of travelling.
I would prefer someone who is also a parent or at least an active uncle, as family and my kids, even as adults, matter a lot to me. My younger son, aged 20, still lives with me, while my older son has set up his own home.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Germany |
Location: |
Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England |
Gender: |
Female |
Age: |
59 |
Star sign: |
Gemini |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) |
Body type: |
Full figured |
Looks: |
Attractive |
Hair colour: |
Greying |
Eye colour: |
Blue |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me |
Want children: |
No |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily |
Smoking: |
Never |
Drinking: |
Several times a week |
Education: |
Postgraduate |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care |
Income: |
Enough |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian |
Home language: |
English |
Other languages: |
German; Other |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | |
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district NG9 (Nottingham) | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age range: |
52 - 66 | |
Star sign: |
Any | |
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 8" (204cm) | |
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Any | |
Eye colour: |
Any | |
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | |
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Any | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | |
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Any | |
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Any | |
Home language: |
Any | |
Other languages: |
Any | |
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Generous; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Outspoken; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Muzak; Opera; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sports: |
Dance; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Feelings about using Silversurfers Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |